Why Rapport Matters in Teletherapy
🌟 Why Rapport Matters in Teletherapy
Parents often come to speech therapy eager to help their child make quick progress — and that’s understandable. Communication impacts so much: confidence, connection, success at school, and family harmony. But sometimes in the rush to “fix it fast,” one essential ingredient gets overlooked — rapport. In pediatric speech therapy, rapport isn’t optional. It’s the foundation of everything that follows. Without it, even the best therapy plan can fall flat.
🪞 What Rapport Really Means
Rapport is more than just liking each other — it’s trust, safety, and mutual respect. In the therapy world, it means a child feels:
- Safe to make mistakes
- Comfortable trying new things
- Confident that their therapist understands them
In teletherapy, rapport takes on a special meaning. We’re asking kids to open up, take risks, and form new speech‑motor pathways — all through a screen. That requires creativity, patience, and a warm human connection before any true progress can begin.
🧱 Why It Has to Come First
Early sessions might look “slow” from the outside — especially for parents hoping to see quick results. You might see your child and therapist playing games, building routines, or laughing more than drilling. But that time isn’t wasted — it’s critical groundwork. In the first few sessions, we’re not just teaching sounds — we’re:
- Building trust so the child feels safe to try
- Learning what motivates them
- Establishing routines and expectations
- Setting up the emotional framework for long‑term success
If we skip that step, therapy becomes mechanical and stressful — and the child may resist, shut down, or even refuse therapy altogether. When that happens, everyone loses: the family’s time, money, and most importantly, the child’s confidence.
💬 More Isn’t Always Better
Sometimes parents ask, “Can we just do three one‑hour sessions a week and get it done faster?” Or, “Can we just drill at home on top of the sessions?” The truth is, intensity without connection doesn’t work. Even for children with apraxia, where high‑frequency practice is key, we often start with one or two weekly sessions to build familiarity and success. Once the child experiences small wins and feels seen, we can safely increase frequency and challenge. That emotional buy‑in is everything — and once we have it, progress accelerates naturally.
🔬 What Research Says
Research consistently shows that the therapeutic relationship — not just the techniques — is one of the strongest predictors of success in therapy. In fact, one review found that higher ratings of the working alliance early in treatment were associated with better outcomes for children in speech‑language therapy. For telepractice specifically, studies show that rapport can be effectively built online — meaning virtual doesn’t mean distant.
🌈 The CloudSpeech Approach
At CloudSpeech, we take rapport seriously. The first few sessions are intentionally gentle and relationship‑based — not rushed or overly structured. We focus on:
- Connection before correction
- Confidence before complexity
- Trust before technique
Once that foundation is in place, we layer in drills, home practice, and structured motor learning — all customized to your child’s unique readiness.
✨ The Takeaway
If your child’s first few sessions look light on drills, don’t worry — that’s a sign of thoughtful therapy. We’re not just teaching sounds. We’re teaching courage, self‑awareness, and communication for life. 💙 Rapport isn’t optional. It’s the start of every success story.
Schedule a free consultation to see how we build connection, clarity, and confidence for your child.
References
- Sylvestre, A., & Gobeil, S. (2020). The Therapeutic Alliance: A Must for Clinical Practice. Canadian Journal of Speech‑Language Pathology & Audiology, 44(3). https://www.cjslpa.ca/download.php?file=%2F2020_CJSLPA_Vol_44%2FNo_3%2FCJSLPA_Vol_44_No_3_2020_1193.pdf
- Freckmann, A., Hines, M., & Lincoln, M. (2017). Clinicians’ perspectives of therapeutic alliance in face‑to‑face and telepractice speech‑language pathology sessions. International Journal of Speech‑Language Pathology. https://franklinsusanibar.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/2017-Freckmann-Clinicians%E2%80%99-perspectives-of-therapeutic-alliance-in.pdf
- Ebert, K. D., & Fairchild, M. E. (2023). Improving the Clinician‑Client Relationship in Children’s Speech‑Language Treatment: An Exploratory Online Training Study. Teaching & Learning in Communication Sciences & Disorders, 7(1). https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1383967.pdf
- Dykstra, T. (2018). The Therapeutic Alliance in Treatment Outcomes for Clients with Communication Disorders. [Unpublished thesis]. Western University. https://www.uwo.ca/fhs/lwm/teaching/EBP/2018_19/Dykstra.pdf